When I was at home, I went to an Afrikaans school which my father chose.I found 'Bare' too long for my liking. They are brutal in their approach of reasoning. Phamotse says she has always viewed men as scary people. When I think about him, I get the shivers. Phamotse also delved into her relationship with her father. She says she had been presented with lingerie.

They would ask if you want something stronger – a pill, a drug or something like that to go with your drink,” Phamotse told Somi on POWER Lunch. I would like to assume that before you go there, they do a check. “In a space of 10 minutes we arrived at these big gates. She recalled the first time they went to the hockey club. He thought that by introducing something unfamiliar, which would be seen as exciting, it would bring back the spark.” Phamotse says the pair had reached a tricky point in their relationship and she wanted out. This is the same man who she says had introduced her to the hockey club. It got to a point where my phone had a tracker, my car had a tracker.” Phamotse says there had been a power struggle in the relationship. I would see him pick me up with a different car every week.” I only found out about his money months later. She says: “I was introduced to a person who had lots of money. The author of the best-selling book, also shares how she had been trapped in the hands of an influential rich man who exposed her to a lavish lifestyle. Her book interrogates the phenomenon of blessers in South Africa and Joburg’s sexual transactional world. Some had even asked if I was sure it was rape,” Phamotse reveals. “There were people asking me why I was speaking about the rape when it was something that had happened in 2007.

However, it wasn’t always positive questions. She says she has also been asked about her regrets, the lessons she’s learned. She has revealed that the top questions she’s been asked since the release of her book relate to how she’s benefited from writing and publishing her book, but also the much-spoken about Bryanston Hockey Club. Phamotse joined Aphelele Somi on POWER Lunch on Friday. Author Jackie Phamotse says her life has been a whirlwind since the release of her latest book, ‘ Bare’.

Bare by Jackie Phamotse